Have you ever hit a wall so hard it felt like everything was coming to a sudden, crashing end? We all fall on hard times. Sometimes, a challenge drops into our laps that looks completely insurmountable. But surviving those moments—and actually growing from them—comes down to one crucial thing: how you choose to view the situation.
Perspective is everything. If you approach a roadblock with an inherently negative mindset, your thought processes are ultimately going to loop right back into negativity. You will convince yourself a task can’t be done before you even take the first step.
But what if you flipped the script?
What if you looked at that intimidating challenge and said, “I may not know exactly how to do this right now, and it looks incredibly hard, but I’m going to figure it out.”
Instead of throwing your hands up and giving in, take a step back. Take the time to genuinely analyze what you are facing. Every obstacle is just a set of information waiting to be understood. If it is a massive project, break it down strategically and plan out exactly how you are going to knock it out piece by piece. Smaller hurdles might take a little less analysis, but they still require a clear head and a solid plan of attack.
We have all heard the old saying, “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” The exact same logic applies to the struggles in your life. Don’t look at the surface of a problem and assume it is simply too big for you. Open it up. Read the pages. Read the footnotes. Look at the situation from all angles and see what others have to say about it.
Never automatically assume something is way too challenging for you to complete. Because if there is a will, there is always a way.
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
— James 1:2-4


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